6.28.2005

There, and there, and back again

I’m back.

It’s taken me a couple of days to catch up on everyone else’s blogs. (Y’all had some pretty interesting discussions while I was gone!). It’s also taken me a couple of days to post here, because my trips were so full and fun that it’s hard summarize them into a few paragraphs. (Read: prepare for a very long post.)

The beach was sunny, sandy, warm, and generally delightful. What a gift from God it was to spend several days swimming, reading, and playing games with my beloved family after so long away from them. Card games, good books, glowing sunsets, the waterfront coffeehouse, tipping sisters off their floats into the ice-cold water, brownies, napping on the hammock while the breeze meandered through the beach grass, praying on the shore while the evening haze crept up from the ocean … it was lovely.

Our beach house has no air conditioning, so for a few days we weathered the near-90-degree heat by jumping into the near-60-degree water. (You should always scream when you jump into near-60-degree water. Then again, you will scream involuntarily.) One of our favorite family games goes by several names—Washing Machine and Chicken are probably the favorites. Players must sit on the sand close enough for the ocean to touch their feet as it washes up the beach. Each time a wave touches them, they must move closer to the waves. The first player to move, wash away, or otherwise wimp out loses.

After 5 days at the beach I flew to California for Torrey and Carrie’s wedding. It was a long trip—five airports in 36 hours, and that was just the trip out—but totally worth it. I stopped overnight at the Kileys’, whose hospitality is awesome. Their home is (and I use this word carefully) heavenly. A quiet, warm welcome and a place full of peace, beauty, and spontaneity are surely foretastes of heaven.

Then there was the drive up through the valley to Sacramento and east into the mountains for the wedding itself. The ceremony took place on the Moes’ front lawn, surrounded by their lovely gardens and the mountain cedar trees, with a garden arch for the entryway and a gazebo for an altar. Bob Donahue (of Grace Community Church) performed the ceremony, which was as full of joy as Torrey and Carrie themselves. As the ceremony ended, Torrey swept Carrie into his arms and ran down the aisle. (By the way, Katie J can do a spankin’ good tango too!)

My flights back to this side of the country were somewhat more eventful. The greatest adrenaline-producing episode came in Atlanta, where thunderstorms caused so many delays that we had to race to our connecting flight. The effect was pretty comical. That story to come in a later post.

There began the second week at the beach, with the family still there and also with good friend Cindy, my roommate-of-ten-years Jane, her husband and baby, and my brother’s lovely girlfriend. More swimming, good books, card games, crossword puzzles, and coffeehouse trips. Dolphins swam up and down the beach, and I paddled out in the kayak close enough to hear one blow and see the seaweed on his fin. One night the moon rose over the ocean while my sisters, brothers, and brother’s girlfriend sat in the gazebo atop the dune and sang.

I had planned to read Henry Beston’s The Outermost House, but I wasn’t in the mood for a naturalist’s descriptions of birds and waves on Cape Cod. Instead I made my first foray into Dorothy Sayers. (Many thanks to my sisters for urging me to it!) In two weeks I got through Strong Poison, Clouds of Witness, Five Red Herrings, and Unnatural Death, and I finished Have His Carcase after I got home. I find myself picking up Britishisms and wanting to end sentences with “and all that” a la Lord Peter. So far, although I admire Lord Peter, I have not fallen in love with him. I am jealous of him, but only with respect to his ability to summon the perfect literary quote for any occasion.

Now I am finally home again. But far ahead the road has gone, and I must follow if I can, and all that. (OK, that was Lord Peter’s influence.) The last few days I’ve been resume-writing and job-hunting. What exactly do I want to do forty hours a week? I’m still not sure, but I’m on the hunt for an editing position. I will let you all know what turns up.

More to come soon.

6.11.2005

Signing off for two weeks...

For the next two weeks I will be at the place pictured on my sister's blog. The house has no phone, on principle. To reach the occupants, friends have at times resorted to ordering pizza for them and asking the pizza man to deliver the message, or ordering flowers and putting the message in the florist's card. I may be able to access e-mail at a local library, but I can't be sure. On my reading list: The Outermost House (Henry Beston), a naturalist's chronicle of a year spent at a beach house more isolated than the one I'll be in.

May your next two weeks be restful as well!

6.06.2005

Celebrations

We are still eating leftover cake. This weekend my family threw their third party in as many weeks. Three weekends ago it was a surprise birthday party for my sister. The following weekend was a graduation party for me, a lovely evening of friends and family and laughter and candlelight, out under the maple tree behind our house. This weekend was my sister's birthday, her high school graduation, and my grandmother's birthday, all on Saturday. Of course this called for another party. It was inside because of the rain, but still a celebration of girlfriends, grandparents, laughter, camera flashes, cake, more candles, and a pair of hands pressed affectionately in a corner of the family room (as romance is blossoming for one of my brothers).

But we couldn't eat all the cake. Carrot cake from the graduation and chocolate cake from the party are slowly disappearing now, as siblings nab small pieces throughout the day. It's a family tradition.

And now my sweet brother is sitting at his computer making beautiful artwork out of pictures of his girlfriend taken this weekend. Meanwhile, Little One is in raptures over her new pink nightgown and the thunderstorm that's blowing through. ("Oh Sarah! It's so dark outside! I love it when it's a dark storm outside 'cause it's so cozy inside. And guess what! I am so excited about putting on my pyjamas tonight! Because I have a new nightgown . . .")

And in a private celebration, I used the last of my Borders gift cards to buy Richard Wilbur's Collected Poems: 1943 - 2004. I had forgotten the wealth a single book of poetry can hold. In scattered quiet moments this weekend I flipped it open, and each time was delighted by fresh beauty. Because I can't read them to you, I'll post some here. For now, here's the one I discovered while paging through the book in Borders (the poem that convinced me to buy the book):

The Reader

She is going back, these days, to the great stories
That charmed her younger mind. A shaded light
Shines on the nape half-shadowed by her curls,
And a page turns now with a scuffing sound.
Onward they come again, the orphans reaching
For a first handhold in a stony world,
The young provincials who at last look down
On the city's maze, and will descend into it,
The serious girl, once more, who would live nobly,
The sly one who aspires to marry so,
The young man bent on glory, and that other
Who seeks a burden. Knowing as she does
What will become of them in bloody field
Or Tuscan garden, it may be that at times
She sees their first and final selves at once,
As a god might to whom all time is now.
Or, having lived so much herself, perhaps
She meets them this time with a wiser eye,
Noting that Julien's calculating head
Is from the first too severed from his heart.
But the true wonder of it is that she,
For all that she may know of consequences,
Still turns enchanted to the next bright page
Like some Natasha in the ballroom door--
Caught in the flow of things wherever bound,
The blight delight of being, ready still
To enter life on life and see them through.

(Collected Poems: 1943-2004 [New York: Harcourt,
Inc., 2004], 5)


More to come.

6.01.2005

Bliss, nearly

I am sitting at a picnic table behind our house, while my little siblings eat lunch nearby and a woodpecker overhead drops bits of bark on my keyboard. My routine at home has come to include breakfast with Mom, going running down sidewalks lined with roses and peonies, and a couple hours reading the Washington Times, Post, CNN, BBC, friends' blogs, and occasionally other interesting folks like Al Mohler and George Grant. The only non-blissful part of the routine is that I miss all you PHC folks and other friends scattered across the country.

Speaking of news sources, a TIME article this morning introduced me to Wikipedia, an online encyclopedia edited by anyone who cares to. Interestingly, what seems like a prime target for pranksters (hey, you don't even have to be a hacker) generally avoids that sort of trouble because, as the article says, "the geeks care more."

So, to test its accuracy, I ran a Wikipedia search on Patrick Henry College. The article is surprisingly current. But I had to laugh when I reached the "alumni" section, which lists three: Jed Haven, Dan Taylor, and (drumroll please) Justin Knepper. (Incidentally, according to Wikipedia, Knepper is a Soft Drink Reviewer.)

I can see the footnote now: Justin Knepper, Soft Drink Reviewer. "Patrick Henry College." Wikipedia.org (1 June 2005).

Dr. Sanders would not approve.